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Everything That Is, Is Holy - Chapter 4

3/28/2015

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It's only our second night and already our community of open Contemplative Living and Sharing is beginning to take form. As folks reflected on their last two weeks comments were shared regarding how folks were focused on becoming more conscious of being more present to themselves and to life in general. A new member of the group shared how, as part of her job, she works with folks who have done some horrible things in their past but continues to be amazed at how she is able to see the core of goodness come out of these people in spite of their backgrounds. This was a testament to God's presence at the heart of all of us.

As we continued to open up Chapter 1, What is Contemplation, we settled in on the "I AM" experience. Several people shared how being immersed in nature allowed folks to "just be" in the moment. It was also mentioned how Silence was a wonderful way to experience the simplicity of being.

One focus of our Chapter reflections were on the notion of saints "not judging sin because they do not know sin, they know the mercy of God."  We discussed that saints are fully human and as such they "sin" (or miss the mark). So, although these folks experience "sin", they open themselves to experience God's merciful forgiveness. As such they focus on expressing that forgiveness to themselves and therefore to others.

We spent time on the discussion of the false self which is the first time this concept has been introduced in this program. Both the false self and the True Self will reoccur in future chapters and we will surely revisit it in future discussions.  In tonight's session we discussed the false self, also called our private or separate self, as the thing that causes us to excessively focus on ourselves as the center of the universe and that aspect of ourselves which "alienates ourselves from reality and from God. It is then the false self that is a god of our own making.

One member of our group spoke about Fr. Thomas Keating, one of the founders of the modern Christian Contemplation method of Centering Prayer. Fr. Keating relates the false self to unmet psychological needs in this way:  "The False Self system is deeply ingrained in our unconscious. Our emotional programs for happiness formed in early childhood and fossilized into energy centers as a source of motivation for our thoughts, feelings, reactions and behavior, manifest themselves at every level of our human functioning. They manifest themselves in desires for the symbols of whatever our particular emotional program is, as crystallized  in  our culture".  

The following video provides a brief overview of Fr. Keatings ideas of the false self as a result of the Human Condition:


I have recently become aware of Michael Brown, who similarly relates our behaviors to the effects of what underlies the false self. I think this is an interesting view of how he believes our experience of Love (i.e. God) is impacted by the emotional constructs of the false self: 


Folks shared the following chapter excerpts as those that touched them most deeply regarding the distortions caused by the false self:

The only true joy on earth is to escape from the prison for our own false self, and enter by love into union with the Life Who dwells and sings within the essence of every creature and in the core of our own souls.

In all created things we, who do not yet perfectly love God, can find something that reflects the fulfillment of heaven and something that reflects the anguish of hell... The fulfillment we find in creatures belong to the reality of the created being, a reality that is from God and belongs to God and reflects God. The anguish we find in them belongs to the disorder of our desire which looks for a greater reality in the object of our desire than is actually there; a greater fulfillment than any created thing is capable of giving.

People were also touched by Merton's insight that "the marriage of body and soul in one person is one of the things that makes man the image of God."
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Jacqueline Schatz
3/29/2015 07:54:31 am

I struggled somewhat with "false self", found Fr. Keating's discussion helped it to fall into place. Reviewed much of Chapter 4 and had highlighted some of the same passages that were mentioned and what I also highlighted (and wrote out)to remember in Centering Prayer is on Page 24 of Chapter #4....."When we are one with God's love, we OWN all things to Him. 'They are ours to offer in Christ His Son.
For all things belong to the sons of God and we are C'hrist,s and Christ is God.'
Resting in His glory, above all pleasure and pain, joy or sorrow and every other good or evil, we love in all things His will, rather than the things themselves and that is the way we make creation a sacrifice in praise of God.
This is the end by which all things we made by God" Thomas Merton
For me, this is helpful to read before prayerful meditation along with Welcoming Prayer. Noted what was posted and loved the passages of the many things He sends us (related to "laborers in the field .)
The presentation is excellent, thoughtful, yet comprehensive and reflected well the tenderness, gentleness of God's loving presence in Centering Prayer...and for those of us who wish to learn and understand this so that a some point we may experience this spiritual treasure a worthwhile endeavor.

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    Paul Uccello and I have been facilitating the Bridges to Contemplative Living with Thomas Merton program at the  Spiritual Life Center in West Hartford CT since the Spring of 2013. I've begun posting reflections from these workshops here starting in Fall 2014.

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